.Beautiful Disaster.

My revision schedule for geog and econs got severly disrupted today...

But i didn't regret it one bit. :) I really needed to destress before i could study and absorb better...though looking at my notes glaring at me on that study table rite now is stressing me once again. I think i'll sleep late tonight.

Got called down by Yinghua to go swimming in the afternoon, together wit her 2 younger sis and Winnie. Lol...those 3 sisters were so cute! Should have brought down my digi cam to take pics. Nvm there will be other times... And the next time... *points finger to Yinghua*... i wanna see u in bikinis!!!

Got back home at 6plus, and dad drove us to AMK to eat crabs...at that same old restaurant we always go. Obviously, my parents don't diversify much...and my mum...i'm really beginning to think she has no self-opinions...every single decision, she leaves to my dad...

I wouldn't be like that if i *ever* got married though...I belive in making a marriage work together, as partners...not one having his/her own way while the other takes a submissive subordinate role...

Which brings into mind an incident that occured outside the swimming complex i witnessed this afternoon, while i was paying for my entrance ticket. There was this couple, back faced towards one another, the woman was plaiting her daughter's hair, the father was arguing wit his wife...and there was another woman, i think their friend, who was trying to ease the tension between the 2...

The husband was very insensitive to his wife's feelings. He was ranting stuff like: "You don't care, because you have always been a very selfish woman..."

And the female friend was saying..."Don't say such things la..."...in chinese...But the wife just continued plaiting her daughter's hair, and mumbled some stuff(which i couldn't hear)...to the husband...

He retorted that they should "get a divorce instead"... (this i'm quoting, cos those were his own words, delivered in an even tone mind you, without any hesitation) Gosh...

I've always thought couples were not supposed to say that "d" word?! Because if such a thought or intention was ever expressed, how do u expect to continue the relationship?? I mean such a word carries such heavy meanings, it speaks of such drastic consequences...and u blurt it just cos you're angry? I sincerely believed the husband was being stupidly insensitive.

Such a dreadful sight. Such public family arguments always make me sad. And their daughter was only abt 2 years old...It makes u wonder how 2 ppl who obviously loved each other so deeply before could feel so little love between them after a period of time.

Does love even last? Can 2 people ever not stop loving each other?

Maybe i shouldn't think too much about it. Too Upsetting~

Hit the books...hit the books... hit the books...

--*BiAnCa*--